Valley Vagabond | Budapest, Walking through the past helps make sense of the present

Nate and Terra Joy have lived in the Snoqualmie Valley for about three years  – first in Snoqualmie for a year and now in North Bend. Nate’s an IT consultant and Terra recently started her own accounting business. Together the Joys have traveled all around Europe and chronicled their many journeys on their travel blog – Joy Adventuring.

This is the second installment of the new Valley Vagabond column, where we here at Living Snoqualmie will share the travel adventures of those whose roots are planted in the Snoqualmie Valley, but also enjoy exploring the world. If you have an adventure you want to share, drop us an email.  Read on…


Looking back on our five days in Budapest, I’m struck by the sometimes irreconcilable tension that we found in a city with a ‘up-and-coming’ feel in the midst of a mostly poor country that doesn’t seem to know if it wants to run away from or embrace parts of its history.

In a way, the country known today as Hungary has always been a victim of unfortunate geography, caught between East and West. Hungary has rarely been given a choice of which side to back in conflict – usually because they are occupied by one force or another at any given time – or they are simply unlucky, as was the case in WWII when they turned from the Germans only to be liberated and then occupied by the Soviets for 40+ years.

Although most of the city is beautiful, there are remnants of Communism everywhere. You can see this in the picture (right), with the grandeur of St. Stephen’s Basilica interrupted by the state-run apartment complexes in the foreground. The complexes were created in the Communist era, overshadowing the cathedral and allowed to stay post-Communism as a visceral reminder of the Soviet regime.

But the question that remains is what these reminders actually ‘remind’ Hungarians of – the more oppressive years of Communism (post WWII-early 60’s)? Or the later years commonly referred to in Hungary as ‘Happy Communism’, when, as a result of an earlier uprising Hungary entered a much-relaxed Communist phase that lasted until 1989? After the fall of Communism, unemployment and other previously unknown problems started to appear, and since that time the life of an average Hungarian (especially outside the city) hasn’t improved much.

Which brings us to today, and why walking around Budapest one feels very much in the midst of an unfinished story that could shift – for better or worse- at any moment.

On the one hand you have the astounding rise of the Jewish Quarter over the last decades, going from a slum with a harassed Jewish population during the mid-20th Century to the most happenin’ place in the city – filled with great restaurants and coffee shops, ping-pong, and ruin pubs.

What is a ruin pub, you ask? Well, even after experiencing the original one, Szimpla Kert, I’m not sure I entirely get it. But basically post-WWII there were a number of abandoned buildings in the Jewish Quarter that were just left to crumble. Starting around 2001 people started to just move in to some of these buildings as is and set up shop, bringing in all sorts of eclectic furniture and letting artists have their way with the place, resulting in the most unique and eclectic bar scene I have ever experienced.

inside a ruin pub
Jewish quarter restaurants

On the other hand, you have these images below, which include (from top to bottom) a significant, still-standing monument to Soviet troops, a 7-foot statue of Ronald Reagan, and the perspective from behind Reagan, looking at the monument (and in the still-further distance the United States Embassy).

Communist monument to Soviet troops
Ronald Reagan was not 7 feet tall
Ronald looking over Communism

Why is the monument still standing? Well, according to our guide, Hungarians are still quite a bit beholden to Russia for oil (although I’m sure it’s more complicated than this), and therefore opted to keep the monument, which happens to be right outside the window of the US Embassy. The U.S. wasn’t pleased about this, so in 2011 the U.S. government ‘gifted’ the more-than-life-sized Reagan statue, who is metaphorically ‘watching over’ the monument, ready to strike if Communism rears its ugly head.

[I have to be honest though, the positioning of the statue and distance from the monument doesn’t leave one with the impression that the U.S. got much of a concession here.]

This really highlighted for us the tug-of-war that Hungary still seems caught in – both between world powers and within itself. It’s well known that the more extreme political views, which include some anti-semitic and ultra-national undertones are becoming more popular in Hungary, leading me to wonder if this country is heading down some past pathway that will result in a replay of history.

As you can tell, we were really affected by all that we learned and saw related to Hungary’s history and present-day implications. But mostly, we just had a great time. I have just a few amazing things  that I must point out, which of course are in the form of a top 5 list.

  1. The food in Budapest is out-of-this-world. For us, this is the best foodie place we have been. Every street is lined with amazing restaurants that all have outdoor seating, replete with blankets and warmers for cool nights.
  2. Our place was amazing. We opted for VRBO this time, and we were not disappointed. I could go on and on, but if you are going to Budapest please just do yourself a favor and stay there.
  3. We met family there!  Believe it or not, Terra’s aunt and uncle were in Budapest at the same time, en route to a conference they were attending in Hungary. It was really great to catch up with them after many years of not seeing each other – and halfway across the world of all places.
  4. The baths are pretty awesome. I didn’t get in to the spa scene in this post at all here, but if you are planning a trip definitely read up on them. We chose Gellert Thermal Baths and were not disappointed (thanks Martin and Sue and Christina for the recommendation).
  5. The coffee is to die for. Finally, we found our happy place for coffee in Europe. Budapest is filled with coffee houses, and it’s a great thing to spend a leisurely morning at one of them.

Feel free to check out some more pictures from our time in Budapest – along with chronicles of other journeys the Joys took this past year at



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